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The end of foreplay in porn? Further destruction to happen in porn films

I found this short article interesting.  The porn industry is starting to get rid of the dialogue in their films and concentrate more on the sex.  More people want to see just the sex and not the bad acting according to sources. 

In case you don’t know me, I am anti-pornography.  The reason for my stance relates to my beliefs that porn is a misuse of sex as the way that God created it.  Another reason I am against porn is because of the way it had a hold on me when I was addicted to it.  I believe that porn screwed up my view of women and the way I related to everyone.  Porn turned me into more of a selfish, pleasure seeking jerk who was interested in his own satisfaction. 

 The reason that porn has this effect on its users is because of the themes that run through porn films.  The main theme of porn films is a guy who just shows up in everyday circumstances and encounters women who want him.  A bit of flirting and a few suggestive words then they are stripping each others clothes off.  This theme runs through out heads in our everyday life.  We look for those situations and we often daydream about them as we go about our days.  Life is really not about sexual conquest at every turn.  The things that happen in porn films don’t actually happen in real life.  

This theme in porn harms our sex life with our spouses.  There is very little (if any) caressing, kissing, and caring for the other partner in a porn film.  When we rush into the act of sex, we are missing out on a very satisfying and intimate time – the foreplay.  Rushing into sex without the foreplay puts us on the level as a dog or other animal that just gets the duty done.  Aren’t we better than animals?   

People who use porn are really longing for that intimacy before, during and after sex.  We all need to be loved and to love someone else.  The intimacy that happens through the whole sexual encounter satisfies our souls and makes us different and special when compared to the animal kingdom.

 Cutting out all foreplay & interactions from porno:

Will this mean that porn films will be more destructive if they cut out every bit of foreplay and get down right to the sex?  — I think more people adopt these new themes of porn and further destroy intimacy in sex. 

Will pornography suffer from cutting this out?  — I think so.  If anything, people want more of the intimacy involved before sex. 

 What do you think?

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Warning: Using Porn has side effects

Contrary to popular culture’s stance on pornography, there are side effects to using porn. Drug companies are legally required to warn you of the possible side effects while taking their product. Many people will never experience all of the side effects listed or they will have one or two of them but won’t attribute them to the drug they are taking. It’s the same thing with porn usage. You will have a side effect, but you may not realize or notice it yourself. Sometimes people around you will notice something that you are blind to. Here are a few of the side effects that may be present in you, some obvious, others not so much. 

Here are a few points to ponder if you think porn you can use porn without consequence. 

It amplifies our selfishness

Pornography changes our perception of women

Pornography robs you of your passion for anything else besides itself

Pornography will destroy your ability to be intimate (emotionally) with your spouse and others

Pornography will destroy your ability to be intimate physically with your spouse

Pornography will grow the time you spend in fantasy land

Pornography will make you act differently in the bedroom

Read more on each of these points:  The side effects of using porn – Does porn warp your brain?

Will HIV Slow down Porn Industry?

The news in the last week has indicated that approximately 16 actors and actresses in the California porn industry have tested positive for HIV.

The people who have surrounded the outbreak have all been quarantined from working until they are reasonable certain that they did not get HIV.  The infection can take up to two weeks to show up in blood tests.  

HIV in Porn Industry

HIV in Porn Industry

Back in 2004, there was a similar outbreak which led to the actors being made to wear condoms.  Those rules have been laxed since then because actors did not want to wear them.

I remember back in the 1980’s when the HIV & AIDS scare first appeared.  It was a death sentence then to be positive with HIV, but today there are drugs that help a person maintain a much longer life with HIV.

Will this slow the porn industry down?  I hope so.  It seems that the only way our attentions are grabbed sometimes is through adversity.  Adversity causes us to step back and ask some tough questions and try to get back to the basics. 

Will the actors & actresses of the porn industry stop for a moment and ask:  Is this lifestyle worth risking my life for?  Do I want to be remembered as a porn star who died of AIDS?  Do the industry & consumers really care about what happens to me, or will they move on to the next new star and push me out?  Will my fellow actors & actresses be there for me as real friends who love and care about me?

Wake up calls usually come from adversity.  I pray that the actors and actresses of porn films will stop and reflect.  I hope that some of them decide that this is not risking my life over.  I hope they see their worth as humans made in the image of God and not objects of lust.

Do you know what to do under severe temptation to view porn?

If you are currently revved up and looking for porn, STOP.  If you want to take away this severe need to look at porn please download my free report on how to diffuse the porn temptation.   Diffuse the situation and start on the road to freedom from porn.

If you struggle with porn and need something ‘just in case’ keep this report handy to help straighten you out in a time of need.

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